Dec 5, 2010

Why Do Bad Guys Have So Much Sex Appeal?

A young handsome guy recently asked an interesting question on Facebook. It's one that has been asked several thousand times before. Nevertheless, I thought it would still make a good thought-provoking topic for one of my blogs.

Here's the question as I remember it:

"Why do women constantly complain about not being able to find a 'good man' but when they do find one they turn their back on him and chase the bad guy?"

Why do some of us do that ladies? I guess it's that old question with a million superficial answers. In my experience, it usually boils down to one of four things (see if you agree).

1) the romantic or explosive love-making that follows those tireless verbal fights;
2) the excitement (albeit subconscious) of those unpredictable passion/turbulent moments... the 'never-a-dull-moment' syndrome that keeps you going back for more;
3) the challenge of winning his love & affection over others;
4) the challenge being THE ONE who will have the power to change him!

Bullet point 2) does seem a little crazy but that's the nature of the female psyche. Of course, not all females think this way, but I am sure it is a significant percentage! Before everyone starts getting bent out of shape with some of these stereotypical generalizations (and I say that with a smile on my face ladies), remember the title of this blog is "Why do bad guys have so much sex appeal" not "Why do bad guys make good husbands" because we all know they definitely don't make good husbands!

If you have a strong opinion on this topic or if you are a BBS victim (the "bad boy syndrome") make sure you add a comment in the Comment box below.

I'm glad I got you thinking!

Remember, always make time for your daily threeLs!

Live, Love & Laugh!



"We believe in telling it like it is"

This month's tip from GGW:

"Oh what the heck, buy yourself another pleasure toy for Christmas"

1. Q. I have been in the United States for 18 months studying "Communication & Journalism" and over that time have developed a fairly good understanding of American slang and colloquials. However, there is one that I just can't seem to figure out. What does "the biggow" mean... My friend told me it was a special kind of hotdog. She said it is so good it makes your eyes roll to the back of your head. Anyway, when I went to a restaurant with her a couple weeks later I got talking to the waiter (who was really cute by-the-way) I mentioned that I wanted to have a "biggow" because I had never had one before, both he and my friend looked at each other and burst into uncontrollable laughter. I didn't get the joke but I laughed right along with them. Please tell me what a "biggow" really is!

A....Honey, I think you mean THE BIG "O"... It means a mind-blowing orgasm. Do you know what an ORGASM is honey? Its when you reach that point when your facial expression changes to that of a crazy animal; you start shaking violently; your eyes start spinning, you start foaming at the mouth... Do I need to go on hun?

2. Q. I think you had this question last month but you never really gave a clear answer so I am going to ask it again. What is a good age to start talking to your children about the 'birds and the bees'? I ask because out of the blue my 11 yr old daughter asked "what does sex feel like mom." I was shocked into complete silence for about 30 seconds but eventually came out with ... "it's relaxing sweetie." What should I have said?

A.... I can definitely understand your hesitation... You didn't want to glorify it to make her want to try it but at the same time you want to give an honest answer. Mama, you have to sit her down and explain about the birds and the bees as early as possible these days (in an age-appropriate way of course). I think they should know about the body parts at age 3 or 4 and the fact that it is referred to as their "private" for a reason. You should have a more in depth conversation to give them a basic understanding by the age of 8 (i.e. body changes, why boys and girls have different body parts etc). You should have definitely explained everything by the age of 14 so that they have a complete understanding of abstinence, sex, pregnancy, diseases and protection. Believe me hun, they start learning stuff from their peers from a very early age so put them on the right track from a young age. And remember, the schools also help out by showing them educational videos and encouraging classroom dialog. Having said all that, I think you gave a good answer mama but make sure you have a more in depth conversation with her real soon. Good job mama!

3. Q. I loved that joke you told us last month. I laughed for the whole week. I would love to hear another one of your PG rated jokes (I think the "X" rated ones may be more than I could handle)!!!

A...Glad you liked it hun. Here's another "PG" rated joke for you. By-the-way, for those of you who don't know a "PG or Family" rated joke simply means it's tastefully naughty (I think I'll start rating them "TN" jokes). You're right not to ask for one of my "X" rated jokes honey - they would CLOSE THIS SITE DOWN!

A mother is driving her little girl to her friend's house for a play date.

‘Mommy,' the little girl asks, 'how old are you?'
'Honey, you are not supposed to ask a lady her age,' the mother replied. 'It's not polite.'
'OK', the little girl says, ’How much do you weigh?'
'Now really,' the mother says, 'those are personal questions and are really none of your business.'
Undaunted, the little girl asks, 'Why did you and Daddy get a divorce?'
'That's enough questions, young lady! Honestly!'
The exasperated mother walks away as the two friends begin to play.
’My Mom won't tell me anything about her,' the little girl says to her friend.
'Well,' says the friend, ’all you need to do is look at her driver's license. It’s like a report card, it has everything on it.'
Later that night the little girl says to her mother, 'I know how old you are. You are 32.'
The mother is surprised and asks, 'How did you find that out?
'I also know that you weigh 130 pounds.'
The mother is past surprised and shocked now. 'How in Heaven’s name did you find that out?'
'And,' the little girl says triumphantly, 'I know why you and daddy got a divorce.'
‘Oh really?' the mother asks. 'Why?'
'Because you scored an F in sex!

4. Q. Thank you, thank you, thank you for your suggestion to try a pleasure toy. I am 74 and a widow. Believe it or not even at 74 I am still a real 'horny chic' (okay, hen). I threw caution to the wind and decided to place one of those discreeeeeet orders. What can I say, I haven't stopped smiling since I started using it. By-the-way, I sometimes use it two or three times a day. Is that normal for someone my age?

A.... Of course its normal honey. I'm older than you hun and there's still plenty of life in my beat up old "Betty." Have you ever thought about becoming a COUGAR honey? I did it for a while a couple years back. It was great fun but I went through a whole heap of money. I'm just messing with you hun, you just keep having fun with your toys!

5. Q. I would like to see pictures of some of the other grannies who have gone wild. Is it possible to post some of their pictures too? Please don't get me wrong, I love looking at your picture but I am curious about the other grannies.

A... I am so glad you asked that question honey. I have been trying to get them to pose in their "wrinkle suit" for the longest. I'll see what I can do but please don't hold your breath honey.

Grannies-Gone-Wild (GGW)


The information contained in this blog is based on personal experiences, observations, opinions and in some cases personal research. If you have any medical, sexual, marital or emotional concerns please make sure you consult a medical professional or trained counselor.